One thing that really sucks is when you text your girlfriend and she does not text back. Everything seemed okay between you guys and all of a sudden she stops replying to your text messages. You’ve become anxious, desperate, and you keep asking yourself questions? I am Mavin and I’m gonna tell you what you should do if your girlfriend does not text back… source. You may also like 10 strategic questions to ask a girl you love and want to marry.
1. Stop worrying about it
Your girlfriend ain’t texting you back and so what? Who cares she’s not texting you back? Who’s she? You’re a man. You should be on your purpose. That’s the most important thing and not a girl you love – even if you wanna marry her. You should know what that purpose is and you should have a mission for your life: something other than meeting and dating women. Maybe it’s your career, your hobby, maybe you’re trying to start a business, or maybe you’re trying to move up the corporate ladder. Whatever it might be, that should be your priority. Don’t make women your number 1.
If you start making your girlfriend or girls or women your priority,
- then you’re gonna start stressing all about her when she’s not texting you back.
- No girl or woman really wanna be your purpose, although girls usually stress that they wanna be your number 1 but that’s truly not the case. Deep down, girls wanna be with a man who has some bigger value in life. A man with status, a man who has achieved something worthwhile.
Follow your dreams and achieve something worthwhile and women will come to you. They’ll crave to be with you and you really won’t have to do much to attract or earn their attention. Just look around and you’ll notice the point I’m making. Girls dying for all these ‘super-ugly’ stars. So if your girlfriend doesn’t text you back, that shouldn’t be an issue at all. No matter how much she loves you, she’ll leave if you’re not that ‘guy.’ And by the way, stressing over a girl can drop your libido and that’s just another issue. I also recommend sweet pick-up lines that’ll get any girl to like you.
2. Date or flirt with a few other girls
At the same time, on the flip side, flirt with a few girls or at least be talking to a few girls at a time. Well, I’m not saying that you should have many ‘girlfriends’ at the same time, but you should have about at least five girls in your life that you text or flirt with if you have time. Because if you’re texting or flirting or if you have only one girl’s number on your phone, then it’s easy to get stressed out if she stops texting you back. You’re gonna come off as needy cos you need her so bad cos she’s your only option. But if you got five girls that you’re talking to or texting, then who cares if one of them doesn’t text back cos you got four other girls to text and flirt with.
The key is, don’t rely on or flirt with only one girl because that’ll seriously cause you to stress out if she’s not replying to your texts or not talking to you anymore. Go out there and meet many women. They’re everywhere. Believe it or not, women need men than men need them. Here: How to make a girl laugh instantly.
3. Be careful what you tell yourself if your girlfriend is not replying to your texts or calls
Normally when you text a girl and she doesn’t text back, you start worrying about things that are quite unnecessary such as:
⦁ Why she isn’t texting you back
⦁ What she might be doing
⦁ Where you went wrong (is it the text that is bad or what?)
⦁ Who she might be with
⦁ Maybe you’re not good enough for her after all?
Instead of doing all these guessings just because your girlfriend didn’t text you back, tell yourself something different. Say to yourself something like: “Well at least I tried,” and just forget about her and do something more important or simply text or chat another girl. Here: How to start a conversation with a girl you like or love.
4. Send her the next text whenever you feel like it
The last thing to do when a girl doesn’t text you back is to send her the next text whenever you feel like it. Don’t give up right away especially if it’s a girl you’ve just met. Just because a girl doesn’t send you one text doesn’t mean anything. Maybe she was busy, or maybe she’s dating somebody else. So what, who cares? Send her another text maybe two or three days later.
Send her texts that are much more compelling, not like: “Hey what’s up? Or what are you up to? Or what are you doing?” You can do that once in a while but its kind of boring. Instead, send a more compelling text like: “Hey I have a super-fun idea… Or I just realized what animal you remind me of” and then send her a picture of a cute dog or cat.
If she still doesn’t reply to your texts, then wait even longer, – a week or more. Be a busy guy. Have other useful things going on in life. Date other girls and then just reply to her or send her another text when she pops up in mind. And RytHere: How to win a girl if she has a boyfriend.