“I have a boyfriend!” …And so what? Guys, after reading this post, getting or talking to a girl who already has a damn boyfriend shouldn’t be an issue at all. This might sound like you’re going to snatch someone else’s property. God damn it! What property? To win a girl who already has a boyfriend, you really need to enter her head – from her heart. Cos girls tend to use their heart more. Whether you’ve met her for the first time or not, this trick works excellently. I also recommend: How to talk to a girl you like or love for the first time.
What to do or say to this girl
This is 100% based on my experience. It’s just one simple trick. I used some psychological tricks – one I call emotional punching. I made her feel bad/guilty for no reason. That way, I got her to say sorry for no tangible reason – and she said it though. With this trick, you gain more authority over the girl and will make her give you more attention than she’ll normally do.
I walked up to talk to confidently, but I made sure I was respectful and I was easy and fun about it. (One great tip when talking to a girl is eye-contact – It adds to your confidence score and further boosts your authority naturally over any girl). What I did that made her feel guilty was that I asked her “what she thought of a picture that I showed her on my phone.” Then she said, “I’m looking at the wildest slay queen ever in the world.” It was actually a funny picture of my mum from one of hair birthday celebrations.
…So, somewhere in our interaction, I asked for her phone number and then she told me that her boyfriend is super-jealous and that he wouldn’t be cool. Although I had wanted to leave initially, I stayed cos I’ve come to get her and I wasn’t leaving without her. I then said a very sweet story about the first time I met my ex – whether it was true or not, there’s no way she could confirm. This time, the conversation has become so emotional that, I later got her number… And … she’s now my girlfriend.
Now, see why she dumped her boyfriend to be with me: “My boyfriend is overly jealous and not fun at all – kind of authoritarian.” With that kind of attitude, you’ll barely find any girl who’ll enjoy your company.
I also recommend: How to tell a girl that you love her if you’re a very shy person.
The point I’m making is that women have always been, and will always act in any situation with 60% emotion, 40% or less practical reasoning. I focused on getting her more emotionally involved in our interaction. So never reach out to win a girl without knowing how to punch on her emotions. Be fun and confident and respectful at the same time. Never give up on her and you’ll be successful.